Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri peeps. How was your raya? I celebrated my first raya in Kuala Terengganu, Kedai Buluh... Rumah papan atap genting. Very cold and chill at night but very hot like hell at day. Anyway, this raya my angah and abang sulong were not here in Terengganu. Sad but what can I do?? Bertukar jadi superman dan terbangkan mereka ke mari ??? atau pinjam suit iron man ??
I also did the last minute shopping with my sister and cousins. A day before raya pergi bandar Kuala Terengganu to find my baju raya, nasib baik jumpa juga. My sis said that I am cerewet and choosey nak mampus. Nak kahwin pon nanti semua calon bakal direject hidup-hidup. Aku pun rasa aku jenis macam gitu.
Dan kalau dah raya of course lah ada orang kahwin. Walimatul urus tu memang wajib ada start 2nd raya je dah banyak majlis sampai jalan pon jam nak mampos. Macet gila lho. So, to all my friends who are engage and getting married this raya, CONGRATULATIOS!! I hope you guys and your partner will lead a happy forever life. Masuk syurga sama-sama. Orang kata, married till jannah.
This married thing make me thinking, not twice or thrice, but hundreds time to get married. The akad nikah is okay, the hantaran is okay, but the walimatul urus is... blergh. Very penat kan.
One of my friend once told me (He is a male) ... “Teha, kau ingat senang ke nak kawen ni ?? Lelaki ni nak kasi duit hantaran lagi, kalau kawen dengan orang jauh nak pergi rumah perempuan tu, nak kena support minyak kereta, rumah tumpangan lagi, barang-barang hantaran, baju kawen lagi, bla3 ... lepas dah kawen nanti, nak dudu sama-sama, kena kasi nafkah lagi dan blablabla... " sekali aku kena dengar mamat ni membebel pasal kawen, sebab dia pon pening kepala awek dia macam tak sabar nak kawen. Dan bebelan dia tu buat aku kesian kat kaum lelaki.
So, you guys yang perempuan, kahwin memang once in a lifetime, tapi kalau nak kahwin mewah-mewah, apa kata you guys seduce anak dato’ or dato’ sendiri ?? Kalau nak sangat kawen dengan kekasih pilihan hati, tetapkan budget rendah-rendah je, dalam RM 20-30ribu tu kira dah keren kot.
Walaupun manusia yang menulis ni memandang perkahwinan bukan top priority dalam hidup beliau, tetapi beliau tetap percaya kehidupan selepas nikah tu jauh lagi penting dari majlis perkahwinan ala-ala puteri jin meraikan manusia dalam hikayat 1001 malam.
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